I am supposed to pay off all the joint accounts that me and hubby #2 made? The divorce decree says he is repsonsible, too. For Heaven's sake, he left me for Charles. Charles pleases him so well that he no longer finds any female attractive. MusicMan, YOU pay the little drag queen's debts. YOU clean up the accounts so he can shop at his favorite stores - Frederick's of Hollywood and Victoria's Secret. You can call me a deadbeat all you want. But I refuse to make things easier for a person whose main goal in life is to become a woman. I should spend my money on our debts while he pays doctors to turn him into a girl??? YOU ARE OUT OF YOUR MIND!!!